Grapevine
2nd April 2006
 
Table of Contents
Freedom: St. Helen’s Festival Weekend
Dove House - Christian Counselling
Pam Payling
Susan Parkin
Catherine Lee – Our CMS Link Missionary.
CMS
Election Time
A Good Read
Church Army
Letter from the Bishop of Wakefield Famine in Mara
Bob & Jess love to Worship at St. Helen’s
New Treasurer Required
Church DIY
Memorial Service
Marriage Course in 2006
The Joseph Winter Lecture
April Choral Evensong
Bring & Buy Cake Stall at The Spring
Jazz’n the BIG BAND Sound
Electoral Roll Revision
Pilates
Baby Signing
Provision for Children During Services
Prayers for Healing
Prayer Times ~ All Welcome
 
 
 
The Bereavement Support Team. One of the many essential pastoral ministries offering support to those in need.  See inside for more details.
 
The Easter Event
At Easter we remember the extremes of Pain and celebrate the utmost Joy.
The death and resurrection of Jesus, the Cross and the empty Tomb remind us of God’s compassion for the world, Jesus’ suffering for our sins, and the risen life we can live in the power of the Holy Spirit.  Too often people celebrate Christmas but forget about Easter.  Christmas is wonderful, but Easter is awe-inspiring.  Both are essential.  The one without the other is meaningless.  For many, Easter is synonymous with holidays, but for any who claim to be Christian, Easter is holy days that are too important to miss out on.  Just as Christmas without Easter is incomplete, so Easter Day without Good Friday is insufficient.  Easter Day gains its meaning from Good Friday.  No Cross, no Resurrection, no pain;  no gain.  We need to make this time a top priority, wherever we are, and if we are here then make every effort to come to our Good Friday Meditations
            12-3pm    at St. Helen’s
              2-3pm    at St. Paul’s
or take part in our Good Friday
Procession with other churches culminating in a special service at Sandal Castle at 5.30pm.
This year we can choose to follow each cross from 5pm from
        -    St. Peter & St. Paul’s
        -    Sandal Methodist Church
        -    Portobello, Rainbow Cafe
Sandal Castle with its skull-like ruins, reminds us of the hill of Golgotha outside the city walls, and this will be the tenth year that we have remembered the Crucifixion as an act of devotion and witness.
Then on Easter Day, we will have Family Communion services at 10am St. Helen’s and 11am St. Paul’s.  If you have friends staying for Easter bring them along.  If you are away for Easter find a church where you are and celebrate there.  Wherever you are don’t miss out on this, the central event of our faith.  Everyone is welcome to join us at The Spring for our traditional Easter Bonnet Parade and Faith Lunch.
        
Yours in His great love, Rupert

Freedom: St. Helen’s Festival Weekend
Now’s the time to make sure you keep the weekend of 19-21 May free for our St. Helen’s Festival.  Last year’s celebration was such a success that we are doing something similar, with different ingredients;  the programme focussing on the theme of Freedom will be:
 
Friday 19
7.30pm St. Helen’s and The Emmaus Rooms  The Northern Saxophone Quartet Tickets available price £8 (£5 concessions) from the ParishOffice, St. Paul’s and The Spring.
Saturday 20
2-5pm  Cream Teas, Stalls, Workshops, Fun & Games for all the family. 7.00pm Exhibition Opening of Landscape Paintings and Cathedral Drawings by Bob and Jess Bailey. 8.00pm Dignity:  A Music & Dance Performance created by Ali Bullivent and Sally Martin on the theme of Slavery and Freedom.
Sunday 21
10.45am Finding Freedom in Christ Invitation & Celebration Service
This is a great opportunity to invite people to join in, and we will be creating a beautiful invitation for you to distribute as you did last year.  
Do keep these days free if possible, and look out for further details.  Rupert
 
Pastoral Ministries
The pastoral work of our Church exists wherever one person cares for another and this, of course, happens throughout our congregations that only those involved know about.  However certain specified ministries are in place which we hope people are aware of and we would encourage anyone to take advantage of these ministries if they have need or desire any of them.  There are people available and a telephone call to Rupert or myself would enable us to arrange a visit from someone involved in the particular ministry.
The Bereavement Support Team aim to give support and encouragement to anyone who has been bereaved - many of whom we get to know about, but many we don’t.  A telephone call to either myself or the Parish Office can enable a person to be visited by a bereavement support team member.
Our Parish Friends visit people regularly and can be contacted through Rose Lee on 250829 if someone needs a regular visitor.
Prayer Ministry is offered after every main service in our churches and Laying on of Hands takes place every other month.  However Rupert accompanied by myself or another member of our Prayer Ministry Team are more than willing to come and pray with individuals at home if anyone requests this.   Please let me know through the Parish Office if you would like a name put on the Prayer List in Grapevine and also when you want it taking off.  Members of St. Paul’s have an emergency prayer chain which people can access through Mavis Rowley Tel. 256252 when prayer is required instantly because of an emergency.  
We are also more than happy to take Communion into people’s homes if they are unable to get to  Church, or take it to them in hospital.   Please just ring the Parish Office, Rupert or myself should this be wanted.  Peter Moulding heads a small team of people who take a Communion Service in Walton Manor Residential Home and Ashgrove Residential Home once a month.  Communication is vital in the work of Pastoral Ministry and unless we are aware of situations where pastoral care is required we cannot offer it, so please don’t hesitate to let us know if any of the above ministries can help.   Confidentiality is always observed.
    Yours in the service of Jesus Christ,    Pam Payling Tel. 274366
 
Dove House - Christian Counselling
The Wakefield Express phoned me last week and asked – “What is Dove house?  We have never heard of you.”  I know many of you support Dove House. We use our room at St Paul’s for counselling & I know we are supported prayerfully, but if you aren’t aware or would like to know more..
Dove House is an interdenominational Christian Counselling Service, affiliated to BACP and ACC, working to their code of ethics and practice. Our counsellors are all qualified or in supervised training on accredited courses. We do not give overtly Christian counselling, but work from the place that all our counsellors are Christian, and if the client asks, but only at their request, we will willingly give Christian input.  The Wakefield Express had heard that we have just been awarded a grant from ‘Awards for All’ to enable us amongst other things to put on ‘Listening Days’ for the community. Listening Days will consist of day workshops to consider how we listen to ourselves & others. How much do we really hear? Through deepening awareness & skills, we hope to challenge & encourage you both personally & in your interactions with others.  If you would be interested in such a day at St Helen’s/St Paul’s, or would like a place personally on a day that is already being planned, please contact us.
And finally, please pray for:
  1. Our clients seeking help – if you are requiring confidential counselling, please contact us
  2. Experienced, trained counsellors to join our team - If you are out there & feel called to join us – please phone Dove House
There are leaflets & newsletters at both churches. Please take one for further details, or phone our confidential phone line – 01924 240488.
Mary Flatman – Dove House Co-ordinator
Who are you?
Pam Payling
Your Age
60 - just!!
Where were you born?
Manygates Maternity Hospital, Wakefield
Occupation?
Jack of all Trades, Master of None
Are you single etc.?
Married to John
Children?
Rachel and David
Pets?    
No
Where do you live?
Horbury
What role/activity are you involved in at church?
Pastoral ministry
Do you believe in God?
I certainly do
Religion?
Christian
Where do you go on holiday?
Africa, South America, Skegness, Lake District
What newspaper do you read?
The Guardian
Favourite books?
Family Sagas and the many inspiring books I have read about faith.
Favourite music?
Songs from the shows.   The Beatles
Favourite TV programmes?
Good dramas, period or modern.   Wildlife programmes
Favourite films?
The Sound of Music.   The Passion of Christ
Favourite Personality?
Delia Smith - her recipes work and her books on faith are written with the same spirit of simplicity and good sense which has characterised her approach to cookery.
Most liked food & drink?
Lovely Sunday Roast and red wine
What do you like most about church?
Joining with my Church Family to worship God in a variety of services
If you ruled the world for a day what would you change?
Apathy.   As it says in “Everyday God” - ‘We may not feel we can change the world, but each of us can change the world around us through the choices we make and the lives we choose to lead.’
If you could meet anyone from the past or now, who would it be and why?
Oswald Chambers - a man of remarkable spiritual wisdom whose writings have inspired me and helped me to mature as a Christian more than any others.
What moment in your life are you most proud of?
12 April 1972 and 9 October 1974 - the days our two children were born.
Susan Parkin
Your Age
64
Occupation?
Retired
Are you single etc.?
Married to Trevor
Children?
Ian and Rachel
Pets?    
None
Where do you live?
Walton
What role/activity are you involved in at church?
Bereavement Support Team. Prayer Ministry and Churchwarden
Do you believe in God?
Yes
Religion?
Christian
Where do you go on holiday?
Caravan in England and Europe, Australia and other countries
What newspaper do you read?
Telegraph
Favourite books?
Pride & Prejudice, Eugenie Grandet, The Count of Monte Cristo, Where
The Wild Things Are, and all books by Jostein Garder
Favourite music?
Romeo & Juliet - Prokofiev, La Boheme - Puccini, Brucke’s Violin Concerto, Rite of Spring - Stravinski.   Jazz - Duke of Ellington, Miles Davis and Winton Masarlis.   Popular - Nora Jones, Kate Melua and The Who.
Favourite TV programmes?
Horizon, Wildlife, CSI, The News
Favourite films?
The Matrix, Dirty Dancing, The Blues Brothers, Shawshank Redemption, Shrek
Favourite Personality?
Desmond Tutu, because of his passion and work for Reconciliation and Truth
Most liked food & drink?
Any Fish Dish, Meringues, Red Wine, Gin & Tonic
What do you like most about church?
The diversity of worship
If you ruled the world for a day what would you change?
Reduce packaging and make all wrappings bio-degradeable
If you could meet anyone from the past or now, who would it be and why?
Galileo, and Eleanor of Aquitaine, both spent time under house arrest, one by the Church, the other by her husband, for their beliefs.
What moment in your life are you most proud of?
Learning to swim in my 50’s
What is the most surprising thing that has happened to you?
Being chased and bitten by a six inch fish whilst snorkelling
Focus on Mission
Sadly we ran out of editorial space last Grapevine. So here is some more information on people and organisations we support as a church.  Thanks again to the Mission and Mara Group for keeping us in touch with all that is happening.
Catherine Lee – Our CMS Link Missionary.
Catherine Lee has worked for the Church Missionary Society for many years.  Her current job is based at St James’ Church Taichung, Taiwan where she has taught at St James kindergarten since 1999.  As well as teaching a lively group of 4/5 year olds Catherine also helps at the church office and teaches English to adults and children.  Learning Mandarin has been a challenge which has been well documented in her link letters which are also a fascinating insight into life in Taiwan.  Before going to Taiwan Catherine was based in Tanzania.
Please pray for
  1. Catherine’s complete recovery after recent surgery,
  2. Her trip back to England for a break will be a time of rest, recuperation and refreshment,
  3. Someone to come forward to take over Catherine’s class until her return to Taiwan.
  4.  
CMS
What does the Church Mission Society (CMS) do?
  1. CMS is an international fellowship of Christians doing local mission around God’s world in which discipling and the work of sharing God’s love among people is done through life’s ordinary roles.
  2. CMS has pioneered mission for over 200 years. Encouraging people to live a mission lifestyle, equipping people in mission service, sharing resources for mission work.
CMS supports people in mission in 30 countries, including Catherine Lee in Taiwan, and is also involved with many types of mission work in 60 countries, plus there are CMS offices in; Abuja, Kampala, London, Lusaka and Nairobi.  There is also partnership with sister CMS organisations in Australia (who support Helen Hoskins in Bunda), Czech Republic, Ireland, New Zealand, Nigeria and USA.  CMS understands its mission in every part of the world as existing in four dimensions, namely:
  1. Mission Ministry – engaging in international mission through eight mission programmes, in partnership with Churches, and other agencies of mission worldwide.
  2. Mission Movement – building and supporting a worldwide community of mission service, which mobilises Christians in local churches and groups for mission service globally and locally whilst expressing the CMS mission spirituality in their daily lives.
  3. Mission Education – reflecting on evangelistic mission and its Biblical mandate and educating, training, and equipping people in mission worldwide.
  4. Mission Resources – resourcing mission through prayer, theological reflection, personnel, communications and finance.
The future ministry of CMS is clearly focused on Evangelistic Mission as outlined above, particularly in parts of the world ‘Where the name of Jesus is rarely heard’.
Prayer requests: For CMS staff working in Pakistan, both in the areas affected by the earthquake and areas where the attacks on Christians, their homes and churches is on the increase.
Helen Hoskins has lived in our link parish of Bunda since 1982 she is National Secretary of the Girls' Brigade Tanzania. She works with a committee training GB officers, opening and encouraging companies, preparing programmes for company meetings, and running camps and conferences. There are 22 GB companies in Tanzania.  Helen is also involved in lay training ministry in village churches.
 
News
Election Time
The Annual General Meeting - Tuesday 25 April 7.30pm at St. Helen’s
This is the meeting when we elect our Wardens, Deanery Representatives, and Parochial Church Councillors, which this year means that overall there can be nominations for eight people, four Wardens, three Deanery Representatives and three Parochial Church Councillors.  Three of the serving Wardens are prepared to stand again, Derek Coombes, Richard Hay and Susan Parkin, leaving one vacancy to fill;  the three Deanery Representat